Saya ingin bercerita tentang Ummu Salamah, salah satu istri Rasulullah. Rasulullah bersabda: “Barangsiapa sengaja memanjangkan bajunya ke tanah dengan maksud bersombong ria, maka Allah tidak akan melihatnya pada hari kiamat kelak.” Ummu Salamah bertanya, “Lantas bagaimana dengan wanita yang mmemanjangkan ujung baju mereka?” “Bagaimana jika terlihat mata kakinya?” Rasulullah berkata, “Naikkanlah sehasta dan jangan melebihkannya”
Have just read two similar stories, one about Rasulullah SAW and his wives, and the second one about Fatimah binti Muhammad SAW and her husband, Ali bin abi Thalib.
The first story was the Asbabun Nuzul Quran Surah Al-Ahzab: 28-29, which is:
O Prophet, say to your wives, “If you should desire the worldly life and its adornment, then come, I will provide for you and give you a gracious release. But if you should desire Allah and His Messenger and the home of the Hereafter – then indeed, Allah has prepared for the doers of good among you a great reward.”
That day Rasulullah SAW was surrounded by his wives, and then Umar and Abu Bakar came. Umar said, “ O Prophet, if Zaid’s daughter, my wife, ask for shopping I’ll chop off her neck.” And then Rasulullah SAW laughed and said, “They are surrounding asking me to feed them (Umm I don’t know how to say it in English, in Indonesia we called it as “nafkah”).”
Then, Abu Bakar came to Aisyah so do Umar came to Hafsyah. They said, “How come you ask something that Rasulullah doesn’t have.” And then Rasulullah announce Al-Ahzab 28-29 which had just delivered to him.
The second story was about Fatimah and her husband, Ali.
One day, Ali looked at Fatimah, she looked pale and then he asked, “Why do you look like this Fatimah?”
She answered, “I haven’t eat for three days.”
Ali Asked, “Why didn’t you tell me?”
Fatimah answered, “Because on the night when you were marry me Rasulullah told me O Fatimah, if Ali come and bring something, eat it. But if he doesn’t bring anything don’t ask him.”
Hope you know the meaning from those two story 😉
I want to share Al-Quraan verse about why we must wear hijab:
And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons, their sisters’ sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed.
Not only quraan tell us to wear hijab, but we can find it on the shahih hadith to:
“Aisha (rad.i-Allahu `anha) reported that Asma’ the daughter of Abu Bakr (rad.i-Allahu `anhu) came to the Messenger of Allah while wearing thin clothing. He approached her and said: ‘O Asma’! When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this. He pointed to the face and hands.” [Abu Dawud]
So, after read this, is there still any doubt on your heart to wear hijab my sister?
Legging is a BIG NO NO for moslem woman. Why? Because I think wearing legging is the as not wear anything. It shows the shape of our legs. We just look like painting our legs. Anyone out there agree with me?
Wearing skirt, or Abaya/Jilbab is better for us. It is more flexible for us and ofcourse cover our body perfectly.
The first thing I want to share is about camel hump hijab. I ever heard a hadith about this thing:
It was reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are two types of the people of Hell that I have not seen yet: men with whips like the tails of cattle, with which they strike the people, and women who are clothed yet naked, walking with an enticing gait, with something on their heads that looks like the humps of camels, leaning to one side. They will never enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.” (Narrated by Ahmad and by Muslim in al-Saheeh).
Nowadays, we often see some hijab style like:
I am not lying, I ever use that kind of hijab style but now I already leave it. First time I saw that style, it looks soo beautiful, but after I see it more it just look like camel hump. After I realize that I suddenly remember the hadith and since then, I never wear it again.
Hi, everyone who come here. I make this blog to share what I thought about hijab and moslem woman wear. Hope you like it :).
I have some reason open this blog:
- I want to share to everyone what on my thought about hijab
- Nowadays I often see our sister treat hijab and moslem wear as a trend. Hijab is our identity right? So we must treat hijab based on quraan and hadith, not based on the trendsetter
- Sometimes we more tolerate to see our sister without hijab than our sister with wide hijab. Our Allah can’t tolerate our sister without hijab, girl. It stated on hadith that every girl who wear dress but seems naked will never smell jannah.
Maybe there still some reason I can’t write, but honestly I just want to make this blog to be the place for us to share what on our mind.